Colorado victim and perpetrator become friends and share restorative justice

In a circle of chairs filled with young people connected to the justice system, Jason Kasperek, a crime victim, shares his journey of forgiveness with Michael Clifton, who spent over 24 years in prison for a violent robbery in 1998. Kasperek’s decision to forgive Clifton and his co-defendant, Rene Lima-Marin, who was originally sentenced to 98 years, emerged from a desire for transparency about their pasts. This evening gathering emphasizes the importance of understanding the broader impact of crimes on victims, their families, and the community.

Clifton, now released and working with the non-profit Remerg, aims to support other ex-convicts in reintegrating into society. He reflects on his journey and the realization of the pain his actions caused not just to Kasperek but also to his own family and community. Their shared experiences have led to a strong bond, with Clifton referring to Kasperek as a brother, underscoring the connection rooted in mutual understanding and healing.

Kasperek and Clifton share their story to illuminate the importance of forgiveness, challenging the perception among youth that forgiveness equates to weakness. Kasperek describes how he witnessed the power of forgiveness in his own life and the necessity of extending it to others, particularly in the context of his interactions with Lima-Marin, who had been released mistakenly and later returned to prison. Their emotional meeting facilitated Kasperek's journey toward accepting the apology and embracing restorative justice principles.

Kasperek's support played a significant role in Clifton's clemency journey. He actively communicated with the governor's office, ultimately leading to Clifton’s release in 2023. Clifton expressed profound gratitude for the opportunity to start anew, highlighting the emotional toll of witnessing the ongoing impact of his past actions on Kasperek, who still dealt with trauma during court proceedings.

Today, the duo conveys their stories together, committed to making a positive impact on youth. They share insights about accountability and the transformative power of forgiveness, which Kasperek believes not only liberates the forgiven but also frees the forgiver. Both men express relief and a sense of purpose now that their nightmares of the past have subsided, signaling a hopeful and purposeful future ahead.