My heart goes out to the families in Kursk — these are human beings, not political pawns, and their pain is a direct consequence of the war that should never have been allowed to spill over into more communities. The article lays bare two ugly truths: civilians on both sides are suffering, and the Russian state has shown shameful incompetence and callousness—from misleading state TV that convinced elderly people to stay, to chaotic, disrespectful lists and a refusal to provide clear answers or proper searches. If Russia truly cared for its citizens it would stop hiding behind propaganda, allow independent investigators and the Red Cross full access, publish an accurate, regularly updated register of the missing, and fund DNA identification, dignified burials and psychosocial support for relatives. There must also be accountability for officials who failed to protect or even properly inform people, and international bodies should press for transparency rather than let this be swept under the carpet. Above all, this is another tragic reminder that the only moral path forward is to stop more killing: protect civilians, open humanitarian corridors, and push for diplomacy so no more families are left waiting in silence.