Ncilla wrote that in discussions about surrogacy, it is often said that a child deserves a father and a mother, while according to her, the child already has both. She argued that the child in a surrogacy arrangement may not be allowed to know his or her mother and that it is conceived with the intention of keeping it away from her. According to Ncilla, a child biologically needs attachment to blood relatives, and making the mother legally invisible does not make her biologically or emotionally non-existent. #draagmoeder #gezinsvorming #ouderlijkerechten (translated)