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The author wrote that she was adopted at five months old and grew up with parents she described as particularly loving and caring. She said she was happy not to have grown up with her biological mother but also felt angry at her. According to the author, a mother’s choice not to raise a child herself could cause emotional damage because the child loses, in her view, the most important person in his or her life. She emphasized that adopted children have diverse experiences and that attachment issues can have various causes. She found it unjust to dismiss those experiences as merely seeking attention or dissatisfaction. She also argued that children growing up with their biological parents could develop attachment issues. The author wrote that since her adoption in 1978, much knowledge had been gained about adoption and attachment, but the subject remained complex and more became known. She stated that international adoptions in the Netherlands had been banned for several years and that the Dutch government had offered apologies a few months earlier for its role in adoptions in the Netherlands, where babies had been taken from their mothers. According to her, the welfare of the child should always come first; she said she judged no one and only stood up for the child. #Adoptie #Hechting #Kinderen (translated)

Monique X- Fluencer wrote that Maarten Keulemans considered the placement of the egg from one woman into another woman to have a child as freedom. She stated that people who opposed this - for example, due to the lack of a mother, possible attachment issues, or what she called child trafficking - were labeled as homophobic. According to her, the far-left thought that way about new life. #vrijheid #reproductierechten #extreemlinks (translated)

Monique X-Influencer said that she had four miscarriages before the birth of her daughter, including one after more than 16 weeks. Due to medical issues, it was difficult for her to carry a pregnancy to term. Her daughter was ultimately born healthy, but too early; according to Monique, she didn't suffer any consequences from it. She stated that she understood the desire to have one's own child, but she would never have used a surrogate. After the miscarriages, she sometimes thought that motherhood might not be meant for her and considered becoming a foster mother. She rejected the idea of bringing in a surrogate and argued that a child was not something you could order. From her work in social services, she had witnessed children with attachment issues, addiction problems, severe mental health issues, and aggressive behavior. According to her, some parents had used certain children as pawns to achieve something. She said it was painful to see how much suffering parents could inflict on children, and that personal selfishness should never be the motivation to have a child. #miskraam #pleegouderschap #gezinsgeluk (translated)

Het vooruitsturen van een kind is pure kinderhandel en beschadigd de psyche van het kind ook nog eens. Er zijn zat voorbeelden te vinden van kinderen die na de gezinshereniging onder voogdij bleven omdat er een grote hechtingsproblematiek was ontstaan. @pvvfaber heeft gelijk #kinderhandel #gezinshereniging #hechtingsproblemen